I consider myself among the most fortunate to have been blessed by Patricia Anne Florey. She carried many titles including, wife, mom, sister, aunt, “Mimi” and friend but the greatest title she carried for me was “The Queen.”
She always carried herself with poise and elegance, the perfect epitome of a lady. Her classy wardrobe with adorning jewelry coupled with her beautiful skin and hair was enough to catch even the complete stranger’s eye as she walked into any room, but it was her pure heart and fear of The Lord that set her apart as the true “Queen” that she was to so many.
As I began to ask The Lord for the words to share with each of you today, He quickly led me to Proverbs 31 – A Wife of Noble Character. As you read through the chapter, verse after verse begins to jump off the page as a description of the woman that we all knew and adored.
Here are the ones that stood out the most to me:
“A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies. Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value. She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life.” Proverbs 31:10-12
“She provides food for her family.” Proverbs 31:15
“She sets about her work vigorously; her arms are strong for her tasks.” Proverbs 31:17
“She opens her arms to the poor and extends her hands to the needy.” Proverbs 31:20
“She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come. She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue. She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness. Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her: “Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all.” Proverbs 31:25-29
I don’t recall my life without Aunt Patti in it. She and my mom became dear friends when I was two and a half years old. When my dad battled his own Colon Cancer and my mom was by his side, Aunt Patti stepped in to ensure my sister and I had a safe place to lay our head, food to eat, a ride to school, and even drove us to countless dance lessons and cheer practices. We adored her. We looked up to her, and we even aspired to be like her one day when we grew up.
Our relationship continued to blossom as she began to pour into my own children with the same affection and love that she had poured out over Jess and me. Now my own children adore her, look up to her and aspire to be just like her one day.
Aunt Patti had that way about her. She was a friend to all. She met you where you were and did so, so very graciously. She never judged, always listened with empathetic ears, and spoke truth with gentleness and grace so you could hear it and receive it as a source to help you not to harm you. She has helped me in countless ways to be a stronger and better woman and mom from her rich counsel. I will never stop praising the Good Lord for allowing her to be the influence that she was to me and my family.
I will also never stop praising Him for giving me these past 6 weeks to walk alongside of she and Uncle Edward as they both fought valiantly against cancer. I witnessed so many beautiful and HOLY moments. We read Psalm 91 together. We worshipped together. We held hands, laughed, cried and prayed together. The last 2 verses of Proverbs 31 came alive for me in these past 6 weeks.
“Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised. Honor her for all that her hands have done, and let her works bring her praise at the city gate.” Proverbs 31:30-31
There is no doubt that Patricia Anne Florey received her praise as she entered the city gate of her eternal home on Sunday, March 3rd, 2024. Many were there greeting and applauding her for being the light of Christ to all who knew her and most importantly her Savior, Jesus Christ. He was ready to see her face to face, so the perfect healing came.
Uncle Edward, I love you! Jeff and Chuck, you are my brothers in Christ and my Wordle Buddies for life! Kristen and Sheri, I am so grateful to have gotten to know each of you. Audra and Lakes, you had the very best Mimi. I hope she continues to inspire you and you hope to grow up to be just like her one day just like I did. Terry, I don’t have words for what you have meant to me and the family. You are stuck with me for life now. I can’t wait to have our weekends together. I love you!
To Dr. Syed, Dr.Vo, her other doctors, nurses, Purple Heart Home Health and Chambers Hospice Professionals you gave the very best care, and we are so grateful for you. To the community, THANK YOU! I have watched the body of Christ be what He designed it to be through so many of you. Thank you for the countless meals that have fed us, the friends that have showed up within 5 minutes of us calling, the flowers, cards, visits, all of it meant so much to the “Queen.”
Thank you, Lord, for the truth of your word and for giving each of us a living example of what this truth looks like in giving us Patricia Anne Florey. We are forever grateful. Amen!